Okay, let’s take it easy on Akari. Many well educated, intelligent people don’t understand the importance of dental care for their pets.
All we can do is try to educate and be supportive. I have an old guy myself that I need to take in for an exam soon. Not looking forward to it, but it is what it is.
I like to think that because I am an RN, I can take care of most things myself. But even I know that pain and infection are not “do it yourself” projects.
PS: Akari if you are reading this, consider putting the cost of the surgery on a credit card (if it is within your means) or start a Go Fund Me account, just some ideas, call around, there are organizations that may be able to help you.
