Naturella:
I may be the odd man out, but whenever I have been in those situations I just remove my dog. I figure my dog might have to be secluded for the evening, but I am avoiding any incidents. Dogs sense uneasiness from people and IMO it is a disaster waiting to happen.
From my experience even if you try to give your reassurance that it might be a good thing and try some socialization, if the owner is not receptive it’s just not safe. More than likely if anything happens you will be blamed because the owner stated they were not comfortable with your dog(s). Unless they socialize their dog nothing will ever change.
I always find out who is bringing their dogs to any social gatherings. Bobby stays home if I have any question about the guest list. I wish everyone’s dog was socialized, I love watching new friends play.
